I am sitting at my small desk, quite a departure from my previous “office” of my last house. I now live on the second floor of a three story condo. Two bedrooms, two and a half baths. Small in comparison to the four bedroom, two car garage home I left behind. This past year, life has changed once more and it gave me an excuse to put down my pen for awhile. Too busy with the move and the changes that have come hurling at me as fast as a wayward hockey puck. have two big windows in front of me that face the road to the community garage. Cars come and go quite routinely. Being hyper-sensitive to distractions, my head bobs as though on a spring every time a car drives by or a neighbor decides to go for a stroll.
Before, in my large office, my windows faced a sprawling, peaceful field of gold. Rarely did I notice anything more than a fleeting butterfly or bird. Now, I have two big windows in front of me that face the road to the community garage. Cars come and go quite routinely. Being hyper-sensitive to distractions, my head bobs as though on a tightly coiled spring every time a car drives by or a neighbor decides to go for a stroll. To say I am distracted would be an understatement. Another excuse.
I close my eyes and say a little prayer for the wisdom and guidance I need to push myself into the world I love. Suddenly, the words and thoughts start to flow! My fingers rattle over my keyboard and my words begin to come to life!
So it goes as a writer. One moment we are empty and giving ourselves a thousand reasons why we “can’t” write today. Then the next moment our minds are so full of stories, characters, and endings that we cannot be dragged from our desk for hours.
It is then I realize that the biggest enemy to my writing is ME! I am the one making excuses! I am the one putting my work out there! I am the one scared of rejection!
And so I pull down the shades on my windows and plod on. How about
How about you? What’s stopping you?
Sometimes as writers, we expect that everyone will like everything we write. We have such a strong desire to be published that we are angered when the plain white post card with a stamped, “We can’t use your work at this time. Thank you.” drops into our mailbox, (email or post), and announces that yes, you are a crappy writer and this rejection note proves it.
Then we might pout, or call a fellow writer to try and suck some sympathy from them. We just know that there is a cad on the other end of that rejection letter, some jerk who probably didn’t even read the wonderful piece of prose we wrote!
But what I’ve found, already, in my short career is that as a writer, we must listen, absord and understand what the rejection letter really means. It’s not a personal attack. It is a rejection of the work. Maybe it was not aptly suited for the place to which it was sent. Maybe it was not written in a format that best displays the work. Maybe it’s been done. Maybe the poor publisher is so overwhelmed that they just can’t read one more work!
I had such was a rejection just a couple of weeks ago. At first, my disappointment was palpable. I say that, because I was alone and I swear I could feel the blood thumping through my veins as I read it. I was hurt, as a rejection of any writer’s work cuts to the bone, (even though we won’t admit it). Then I read the rejection again. I was the lucky writer who had an editor tell me what they didn’t like about my story. They gave me helpful insights of what was expected for their publication. They were brutally honest! But they gave me something more. They gave me a second chance to write it!
Guess what? I did. I rewote the article. I received a reply that it was accepted! So, I guess the moral to this story is, save all the rejection postcards as you’ll need them to remind you that as a writer, you will be disappointed. Not everyone will like everything you write, but write anyway, or maybe it’s better said, rewrite anyway!
Have a good week!
What a joy to be a part of the ACFW family! The conference here in St. Louis is filled with aspiring writers and encouraging editors, agents and publishers all here to glorify God! I’m finding myself encouraging others more than anything else, which makes for a great time! Happening at the same time is the Joyce Meyers Convention, so the entire downtown area is filled with people who love the Lord! I even had the chance to give one of her staff a copy of Run, River Currents, as Joyce ministers about her abusive life.
From the moment I arrived it was as though God had a plan for everything. I have been a part of a giving attitude in every restaurant, every store and every coffee shop within a 10 block radius. I hear workers saying to each other that they have never been treated so kindly, tipped so graciously or listened to so intently as these few days. My own maid cried when I handed her a few extra dollars and a book of faith I picked up here. I hadn’t seen her need until then. I was just reacting to the gratefulness I was feeling.
Writers do make a difference, but more than that, people of faith make a difference when we allow God to shine through our actions. I know I am learning techniques and craft here, but the real lessons are coming from the heart.
Go on out today and be a blessing to someone in any little way you can. You never know where God will take your kindness.
P.S. Don’t forget you have until October 12 to sign up for my Goodreads Giveaway of The Button Legacy: Emily’s Inheritance! A “button” bracelet will be included for one lucky winner!
From September 12 through October 12, Goodreads will be running a contest for 5 autographed copies of The Button Legacy: Emily’s Inheritance. Make sure you take the time to register and tell your friends!
Read the Goodreads giveaway details here!
Join me on Goodreads throughout the month as I answer questions about the new release!
See you there!
As a new author, having your book accepted for publication is only the beginning of an exciting and madcap adventure! There are so many things that will be asked of you by your publisher, your editor and your agent or marketing director. When I began the journey, little did I understand the demands that would be put on me, demands that are necessary for a novel’s success.
Because the publishing process is a team effort, everyone must play a part, including the often-times frazzled writer. The dilemma for the writer is that they want to write. They don’t necessarily want be involved in the marketing of their work. The dilemma for the publisher is that they may not have a marketing budget for an unknown author and thusly need to see an author is committed to the novel’s success.
So how does a new author prepare for publication even before their book has an agent, editor or publisher? Here are a few tips that I often share with authors during the writing conferences I teach at.
- Here are three suggestions of documents that you can prepare in advance
- Bio-make them varying lengths, short, medium and long. Include a bio with writing experience or clips. Have one for speaking, as well as writing.
- Query Letter-This can be generic, but it should be good, as it shows off your writing style.
- Synopsis-Actually, you need more than one synopsis, as different agents and editors may ask for synopsis’ of several lengths.
- Once your work is accepted for publication, here are three items you will be asked about
- Your platform-Do you have followers in a subject matter that pertains to your work?
- Social Media-Are you set up on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Goodreads, Pinterest, etc.?
- Whose work is similar to yours?-A publisher wants to know you understand your audience. They may request a list of authors whose work may be in the same genre or writing style as yours. Be prepared.
This is just a small sample of what you may need as you get started, but I’ll giving a full workshop, complete with checklists and advice at the Hampton Roads Writer’s Conference, September 18-20, 2014 at the Westin Hotel in Virginia Beach, VA.